Tuesday 2 June 2015

Why men have to lie to women




Do women prefer men lying to them? It is one question that bothers men. A woman will ask a man if he thought another lady passing by is pretty. What she is really asking is if she is prettier than her. An honest answer to this one may spell trouble but a blatant lie about her beauty works miracles. There are things you do not comment on negatively especially women hair so lies will save you.
I read an interesting quote from Mir Anas Hossain  that says ‘Stuck in a generation where loyalty is just a tattoo, love is just a quote and lying is the new truth’.
One would wonder why women love men who lie to them. The truth is most women can not handle the truth about them or their men. What a man does is to tell her what she needs to hear. Obviously women love mysterious men capable of pulling off surprise. Honestly this can only be pulled off with a pack of lies from a man. Everyone has those skeletons.
Lies can still be helpful with preparing a woman to receive the truth. Women always distance themselves from a man who wears his heart on his sleeves. A woman is likely to dump a guy who shows up with children on their first date.  If the man lies as he buys time of introducing her to the children question reality. They just do not want to know about the other woman or children in your life instantly. Sometimes a lie and then she finds out from other people works just fine.
Women are always in habit of making unrealistic promises that some men know very well they can not honour. If you found him drinking his entire life, do you think a bedside pledge never to drink again will hold?
Women love for fantasy and not forgetting friction. A man who can process lies into nice stories will be nice and lovely. This is an adventure to men. Men seem to notice that   if they tell a women what they want to hear, they submit blindly. This is irrespective if it being a lie or not. All you need is a rope to pull her wherever you want to go.
The women who play hard to get seem to endorse the idea of lies. You need to feel sorry for the man who needs to put up a show to be accepted. Desperation will push anyone to lie. Some women set high standards for men the first time they interact. In reality some men can not meet them. The man has to ferment lies to look like truth. Then men embark on hiring their social status. The man will lie about his job and hire a car since she says can not do public transport. The lies to the woman out of   his love. He may fear being rejected if he takes her to his ghetto or shows up on a date on a motorcycle. A man lying to a woman is not about to stop since one lie needs another to keep peace.


Ivan .N.Baliboola
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