A friend picked me from work in a Left hand manual SUV.To me, it was unusual for a person to drive a left hand car in Uganda. In my mind I was thinking this has more disadvantages hence a stressor. This person told me that it is the source of the new happiness because people no longer want to borrow his car. My friend explained to me the stress he went through sharing their previous normal right hand cars.
We have been programmed to nod our heads automatically to yes. For how long will you limit your happiness because you want to please people? Everyone wants to be a hero nowadays. Do something daring and move a step forward. Try again and again because you cannot fail forever to move on or stand up against something you do not want.
Sometimes you should not listen at all in order to take responsibility for what is happening in your life. No one ever asked you. Forget jerry Springer show where it’s a face to face talk to your enemies. Stop crying and fix the you.
Sometimes it’s us to blame for your problems not the world. Sell your pain for happiness. Look around. Look at people in your life. I ask you to step out of that waiting area. Sometimes you need to do something about that baggage you have kept for long.
You are the reason you are not happy not the world. There is no gain playing cool with issues to do with life, career or wealth.
Baliboola.N.Ivan
PR & organisational diagnosis specialist
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